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FLEX Starter: Find Your Style

Be Seen, Heard, & Understood™

One Sitting. One Real Conversation.

A self-paced interactive online training program in the field of leadership development. Four streamed video lessons with activities and knowledge checks, plus your free FLEX Personality Calculator™ results. About 35 minutes of video, roughly an hour start to finish.


You'll discover your FLEX style and the blind spot your greatest strength creates, learn to read the four styles from what people do rather than what you assume, and finish by planning one real conversation with one real person on your team.


Not a theory course. You leave with something to run this week.

Course Curriculum

Start Here: How This Course Works (2:14)

A short welcome, what you'll walk away with, and the one thing to do before Lesson 02 opens.


Lesson 01 — What FLEX Is and Why Style Beats Skill (5:20)

Why competent people talk past each other, the four styles introduced, and the frame that carries the whole course: not wrong, just different. Ends with your free FLEX Personality Calculator™.


Lesson 02 — Your Style: The Strength and the Shadow (8:17)

All four styles in depth, including the specific cost each strength carries. Six-question scenario check.


Lesson 03 — Reading the Room Without Stereotyping (12:36)

The four moments that reveal someone's style, and the line between reading people and boxing them in. Eight-question check.


Lesson 04 — Your First FLEX Conversation (6:04)

Pick the person, place their style, name the gap, choose one move, write the opening line, set the check date..

Find Your Style

Lifetime access to all four lessons, activities, and knowledge checks.

Full Course Access

$97

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does the course take?

Just over half an hour total. Four lessons, each 6 to 12 minutes, plus the activities and knowledge checks. Most people do it in one sitting; it works just as well spread across a week.


How long do I have access?

Lifetime. Buy it once, come back whenever you want. There's no subscription and no expiration.


Can I share it with my team?

Your purchase covers one person. If you want your team to go through it, reach out and we'll set up team access rather than having everyone buy separately. The materials are licensed for your own use, and using them to train others commercially requires a separate license.


Do I need to take the FLEX assessment?

Yes, and it's free. It takes about ten minutes and Lesson 02 stays locked until it's done. Everything after Lesson 01 is built on your result, so without it we'd be teaching you about styles in general instead of yours specifically.


Can I download the videos?

No. Lessons stream inside your course account, which is how the program stays current when material is updated. You keep access for life, so there's nothing to save offline.


What if I've already read the books?

You'll move faster and go deeper. The books give you the framework; this course walks you through applying it to one specific person on your team this week.


Is this the same as FLEX Leadership Foundations?

No. Starter is one hour on finding your style and planning one conversation. Foundations is eight modules and six to eight hours across a whole team, including the harder conversations. Starter is a good way to find out whether the approach fits how you think.


What do I need to get started?

A browser and about an hour. Nothing to install.


Can I get a refund?

Reach out and tell me what fell short. Because access is granted immediately on purchase, refunds are handled case by case rather than automatically. If it didn't deliver what you came for, I want to hear it either way.